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Jade-is-amazing posted this thread...
Oct. 31, 2012 at 8:07 am

For all of you guys who know me, you know that i was pr.egn.ant.i woke up one morning like usual and walked out to say good morning to my partener, when he goes to me, Jade you have blo.od dripping down your leg, i imidiately freaked! mum rushed me to hospital and seems i had lost my ba.by. i was 9 weeks along

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ShadowTheFallenThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 31, 2012 at 6:34 pm

... *hugs Jade* :'(

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Oct. 31, 2012 at 6:50 pm

Oh, I'm so sorry. *hugs* But don't be discouraged, mis.carriages are completely normal, nearly everyone who has babies gets at least one. If you want, you can try again someday. My mom had six, I think, and recently my sister had two in a row. But my sister is now pre.gnant again, and I think this one will make it. *hugs again* You'll be okay.

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Oct. 31, 2012 at 6:50 pm

Oh, I'm so sorry. *hugs* But don't be discouraged, mis.carriages are completely normal, nearly everyone who has babies gets at least one. If you want, you can try again someday. My mom had six, I think, and recently my sister had two in a row. But my sister is now pre.gnant again, and I think this one will make it. *hugs again* You'll be okay.

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Nov. 1, 2012 at 10:29 am

I'm really sorry, Jade. =(  My mom has had several miscarriages, so I know how traumatic it can be... it's really sad to lose a baby. I hope you heal up soon, both physically, and mentally. *hugs Jade*
One thing my mom does, and a lot of other moms I've known, is they name their miscarried baby. It helps with the emotional pain, somehow.
I'm praying for you!

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 4, 2012 at 5:37 am

well if it were a girl her name would have been <ia-Elizabeth, if he was a boy would have been Nate-James.... this is so hard for me

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Nov. 4, 2012 at 3:47 pm

Those are beautiful names. *hugs Jade* I know it's hard! If you ever need to talk, I'm available on here.

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 5, 2012 at 5:45 am

i meant *mia-elizabeth sorry <3
i just feel like a failure, like im hopeless

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Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:44 am

I was pretty sure you meant Mia-Elizabeth. =)
 
Jade, you are NOT a failure! And you are not hopeless. Lots of people lose babies; you're not the only one. It wasn't your fault. 
You have a partner who loves you, parents who support you, and friends who care about you.

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 5, 2012 at 8:12 pm

okay :3
and i know im not, its just the way my brains thinking at the moment.. i love my partener and my parents are there for me, i just need time to recover... heres something, me and jordan are thinkning about trying agagin :) so yeah we will give me more time to get better and than yeah :)

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LyriceMusicNote replied...
Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:18 pm

I'm so sorry. That truly sucks. But when I was only 9 years old my sister died in bed next to me, my older sisiter who had been sick her whole life. She never got to have any fun and she never got to be normal or anything and one night (we didn't know it was that bad) she died in bed next to me. The docters suspect she was dead the whole night. And I remember thinking in the middle of the night that she felt cold. Terrible things happen. I got through my tragic times and I know that with help from friedns and family you'll get through yours too :) I promise 

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Nov. 9, 2012 at 6:41 pm

That's awful! *hugs Lyrice* It's great that you're okay though.
 
If a mother wasn't drinking or anything, it's never really her fault. I would advise waiting at least until you graduate from school, otherwise you won't be able to spend as much time with your baby. Personally, I'd wait until I was married, but it's your choice. Just be careful, taking care of a baby when you're still in school is VERY difficult. Taking care of a baby at all is hard. *hugs* No matter what you decide to do, we're here for you. :)

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 10, 2012 at 1:11 am

i was admitted to the kingaroy hospital 2 days ago because i have severe depression and anxiety (Y) just wonderful </3
 
and yeah we are waiting

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Smile,RayynThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 10, 2012 at 3:39 pm

Wow, I'm so sorry Jade. *hugs Jade TIGHTLY*

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 11, 2012 at 3:09 am

*hugs back tightly* looks like i wasnt meant to be a mum </3

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Still_worth_LovingThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 15, 2012 at 8:34 am

Try not to blame yourself; 1/5 conceptions end in miscarriage like that. Or some statistic like that. A lot. It must not be fun to be one of them. :(

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Nov. 18, 2012 at 5:36 pm

Don't think you weren't meant to be a mom. Maybe you weren't meant to be a mom yet, but I'm sure when you're older, if you make the right choices you will make a great mother. My sister is a great mother, having miscarriges doesn't make her any worse. As I said before, it happens A LOT. It has nothing to do with how capable you are as a parent. :) *huggles*

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Nov. 18, 2012 at 5:36 pm

Don't think you weren't meant to be a mom. Maybe you weren't meant to be a mom yet, but I'm sure when you're older, if you make the right choices you will make a great mother. My sister is a great mother, having miscarriges doesn't make her any worse. As I said before, it happens A LOT. It has nothing to do with how capable you are as a parent. :) *huggles*

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Jade-is-amazing replied...
Nov. 21, 2012 at 5:43 am

so i think im mentally unstable, just got home from hospital, i tryed to cut my thraot because i love the guy i love because i dont know how to handle my feelings </3

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Still_worth_LovingThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 21, 2012 at 9:50 pm

If you tried to do something like that, you need to tell someone that you are mentally not okay! Hon, we don't want you to hurt yourself so. :( *hugs*

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