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Pretty sure I'm pre.gnant... not sure what my parents will think... abusive boyfriend... ohhh...

TheHeatOfALovesTouch posted this thread...
Jun. 9, 2012 at 2:46 pm

Okay, though I haven't taken any tests, I've gotta be preg.nant. I've been getting REALLY sick, eating a lot, missing periods, having to take a lot of bathroom breaks, and I'm getting the bulge now. I suspected that I was preg.nant about three or four months ago, but I have no idea how I'm going to tell my parents. They may not mind, but then again they may be really angry. Also, my boyfriend already abuses me and he'll be so irate with me. I've been freaking out majorly; I have no clue what to do.

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Kenrichi replied...
Jun. 9, 2012 at 4:24 pm

Tell your parents, it won't be that bad. As for the boyfriend, you should leave him. Put a restraining order on him if he's persistent. Because I'm sure you don't want to take the chance of further abuse and endangering your child. I hope I helped.

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beachychick replied...
Jun. 9, 2012 at 9:29 pm

Wow. First off, you need to take a test. Because you need to know for sure. And then definitely get out of your relationship. And tell your parents. And think about your options for you and the baby. Good luck!

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Aeliss-Novak replied...
Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:46 am

Actually, getting out of the relationship is more important, do that first.

Anticipating telling someone is ALWAYS worse that actually doing it. Stress could harm the baby, go tell your parents, get it over with. I would take the test first though.

I agree with Freedom, please don't ab.ort!

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Jun. 13, 2012 at 8:56 am

Okay, so I definitely am preg.nant; I took a test. It was tough, but I left my boyfriend. Don't worry, I wouldn't even dream of aborting a baby. But I did tell my mom I was preg.nant, and she told me that I should break the news to my dad the next time I go to his house. Most of my worries are out of the way. My mom wasn't angry with me at all, she's rather blunt toward it actually. I just don't know what dad will say... I'm going to his house in two weeks...

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LandOfDarknessThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 13, 2012 at 9:03 am

Oh wow... I'm very sorry. I'm going to pray that everything goes smoothly for you, your family, and your baby. Don't worry, God loves you and will not let you have a bad experience. It will all be over and good soon, I declare it in Jesus' name. You're good.

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An-eloquent-leafThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 13, 2012 at 9:10 am

Oh wow, I'm so glad you chose to leave your boyfriend, Heart (is there another name you'd prefer me to call you by?, and especially that your mom seems to understand. I'll be praying for you as well, and if you ever need someone to talk or vent to, you can always come here. A year or so ago, there was a girl who came here that was pregĻ€ant as well, and whenever she needed to express her feelings or ask for help, everyone was glad to asist her as best as they could. It's gonna be alright, Heart, don't worry :)

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Aeliss-Novak replied...
Jun. 13, 2012 at 2:20 pm

It sounds like it's all going pretty well :) Good luck with your dad! *hugs*

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JoPepperThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 13, 2012 at 2:53 pm

Tell your parents, its impossible to hide a pregnancy forever, and also you NEED to leave your boyfriend!

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KanupriyaThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 29, 2012 at 6:51 am

that happens right...so don't worry...ur dad will understand m sure..take care...and DON'T ABORT! :)

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Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:04 pm

I gave birth to a healthy baby boy on Wednesday afternoon :) Thank you all for supporting me. Everything is fine.

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Brown-Eyed_Demon replied...
Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:15 pm

Congratulations!! :) What's his name?

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Aeliss-Novak replied...
Jul. 2, 2012 at 3:50 pm

*hugs* Yay! *hugs baby too* Congratulations!

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LongLazyDays55 replied...
Jul. 8, 2012 at 12:55 pm

So pleased to hear about your baby! Reading through this thread, I really really hoped you would get through everything smoothly. I'm so glad everything went well. I hope the very best for you, your family and your baby boy. What's his name? :) :) :) :D

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laurengerhard replied...
Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:16 pm

Okay, guys, sorry to break it to you, but she suspected she was pregnant, took the test, told her parents, and gave birth all in under a month..... um.

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Apr. 6, 2013 at 9:11 pm

Congratulations!!!!!! What's his name?

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nerdlover17 replied...
Apr. 22, 2013 at 8:48 pm

I know I am late to the part congrats. I am a mom too so if you need any advice, you can text me. Just tell me your heart and from team ink. Hope you are doing well. By the way I am Maggie.

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packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
May 14, 2013 at 4:14 pm

lauren: that's what i was thinking... and she hasn't got back on... :(

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sarah98This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
May 20, 2013 at 5:30 pm

take a test, go to your parents, and get yourself away from the situation with the boyfriend

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chloena_garrett replied...
Jun. 18, 2013 at 12:47 pm

I'm with you on this. The article was posted on the 9th of june, 2012... When she "barely started getting a bump" and missed only a few periods..... then 20 days later she has a baby?.... this seems like it's for attention...

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