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AprilBlue replied...
Jul. 17, 2010 at 4:36 pm

SARAH! I read up after I left and I am so sorry about what happened, but know there's a lot of us out there praying for your little girl :)

I am so glad your family finally took charge. It's amazing what little miricals can do for you. Are you still feeling sick? Lemme know! 

-Sarah. 

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 6:51 pm

hey guys sorry its been so long. ive been on vaca with no internet :( so anyways...katikat, i reread some stuff and ive been putting some wrong info. im now in my fifth month. im due in december. things have been pretty boring not much that i can think of. any thing you guys feel like hearing about, or questions? btw..im HUGE!! lol...and aprilblue!!!!!! im soooo glad ur back...we've got catching up 2 do! msg me back!!

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gymbabe replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 6:58 pm

I'm sorry, I haven't commented before, but I read the thread. I think you're an extremely strong and brave girl.  And haha, sorry if this isn't very encouraging, but you'll get huger. Hope you deliver safely.

 

-Lexie

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-Kal- replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 7:05 pm

Hey Sarah. I too am way late to this convo but I only just now found it. I read most of it and am sorry that there is so much going on, but I think that things will get better. I am so sorry about the father being the stereotypical teenage guy, but not all of us are like that. If ever you want to talk, just let me know and I will listen. Best of wishes with everything

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mallory14 replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 8:25 pm

hey if you ever need anyone to talk to im here trust me ....  

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 8:51 pm

hey guys. its fine for joining late. im pretty low tonite so if anyone is on here i'd love to tlk. i'm in the amish country with my grandparents and sisters. its so hot and im so sick. im trying to put on a brave face but all i wanna do is sleep in the camper. im so exhausted. im trying to b the tough girl cause i kno alot of younger girls at my school used to look up to me. :( i know i kinda lost my right to b a role model but im trying to b brave.

 

but the truth is..its hard. im terrified. there is so much stufff changing and i feeel outta control with my body. i feel like im suffocating and everyone thinks im fine. the initial shock has died down but im still so shook up. i have a HUMAN LIFE living inside of me. and in a few months im going to b incontrol of this baby. i rly need someone to tlk to 2nite. im rly lonely...anyone out there?

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-Kal- replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 8:56 pm

I have 15 mins to talk to you. Sorry I don't have longer, truly...

 

I understand what you are saying cause my freshman year I had a really close friend who was pr.egnant so yeah. I'm sorry that you aren't feeling well, but you have to remember everything you said about having a human life inside you that you are going to be in charge of. As much as I know it must really stink, you are living for two people (at least.)  Again, as much as it must stink, you will get through this.

 

That's all I can really think of to say, but why don't you just talk. I promise to listen and keep anything you say to myself

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 9:03 pm

its ok..better then nothing. i just feel so alone sometimes. i try to b my upbeat perky self but its so hard cause im tired so often. i see babies all over the place with their families and all i can think is "my baby is never going to have that" atleast not for quite sometime. i kno God's timing is perfect. but its hard to believe that right now. i dnt see wat good is going to come from this. im not fit to b a mother. and im sooo afraid of giving birth.

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-Kal- replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 9:07 pm

Maybe you'll decide when your child is born that you want to keep him or her. For whatever reason, God decided that he wanted you to have this child. I get that you are scared, but doesn't it make since that because God wants you to have this child he will protect you in the process?

 

My heart goes out to you due to your lonliness and fear, but you aren't completely alone. You have all of us here for you.

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 9:09 pm

i never thought of it that way...but i guess ur right. im just so afraid im not ready. ive always been bad with babies. i just dont have that maternal quality u know? wat if my baby hates me?

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gymbabe replied...
Aug. 2, 2010 at 9:34 pm

Sarah, your baby will love you. You cared about it enough to want to keep it, even though you could've just given it away for adoption. That right there shows love and devotion. Maternal instincts.  You'll be an excellent mother Sarah.

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 3, 2010 at 8:21 am

i do...i rly love her soo much. i picture her in my arms and i cry. i want to give her everything..but is it possible 4 me to? i want her to b the happiest girl she can b, i want her to have the life i have. but the dad is gone, and she will probly never see him. while she's growing up, so will i b. i'll miss her first steps and first words because im learning algebra and running and playing sports. i want her to have a family who she is the center of their world...

 

but at the same time, i can't bare the thought of losing her. i need to hold her and tell her i love her. i want her to kno that. but if i keep her, is it because of my own selfish reasons?

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gymbabe replied...
Aug. 3, 2010 at 8:27 am

Sarah, the best thing for a baby is to be with his/her true biological mother.  Your baby will  need you.  I'm sure once the baby is born your parents will love it like you do, and they'll help you take care of them.  And you also have a choice, if you want to at least temporarily give up sports to be with your baby, or if you want to continue, either way is fine.  Because honestly, your baby won't remember if you saw their first steps or heard their first word, they'll remember all the love you gave them.

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-Kal- replied...
Aug. 3, 2010 at 9:02 pm

Sarah, I think it would be helpful for you to realize that you can't be there for your daughter one-hundred percent of the time, even though you obviously want to be. I know very little about you except what you have told us here and I know how much you love her.

 

I think that every mother is secretly afraid that they won't be ready, but that doesn't make you any less of a mother.

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 4, 2010 at 8:18 am

it wont show my replies :( i basically said thanks for the boost, and im worried bout school. my parents suggested going to one for girls like me but i wana stay with my friends. one of my friends isn't allowed to hang out with me anymore cause of her parents. and i rly need and miss her :(  

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gymbabe replied...
Aug. 4, 2010 at 8:20 am

Can you talk to her online?  And when you come close to due, unfortunately, you will have to probably take an online class or homeschool.  But once you've been with the baby for a little while, you'll probably be able to go back.

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 4, 2010 at 4:42 pm

i didn't even think about that :( i just dont kno wat to do. i kno im being selfish...but im losing my teen years here!! i have to grow up...i feel like im drowning in responsibility

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 4, 2010 at 9:09 pm

fantasywriter, it keeps saying i have a new msg from you but i cant get it. u may have to edit it. they sensor out words like preg.nant

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Sarah M. replied...
Aug. 4, 2010 at 9:10 pm

anybody on here who feels like tlking??

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AprilDot replied...
Aug. 5, 2010 at 6:20 pm

OMG! I HAVEN'T TALKED TO YOU IN SO LONG!!!!!!

I thought you forgot about us :)

Anyway, I'm sorry you're feeling like c.rap. But I'm happy you're still healthy and the baby's well. 

How far along are you now?

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