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I guess they filtered my last comment for hel.l. Ohmygoodness, picky filter, I wasn't even swearin.g.
Anyways, I am sorry too about your baby boy and pray that your baby girl would go through safe and sound. I'm sorry but I believe I see the bright side of this incident. God let the baby get away from you in order to show your family how important you and the babies are to them. So be brave and steadfast in the Lord, He will get you through this. And I'm very very glad that your family is coming around, slowly, but they are.
I'm very very glad that you want to keep the baby. I know it would be hard because I've heard of young single moms's stories, but they all seemed to think their children are worth it. I'm not a mother yet, but I know I wouldn't want to give my child away because it's already been hard to give my puppies away. Anyways, hope that whatever decision you'll make, you won't regret it.P.S. School might be hel.l but know that all of us are and will be here for you. So be strong like the girl I know you are :)
Thank god everything turned out ok for you Sarah. I hope you're feeling better, I know you must have been in a lot of pain. I'm really happy for you that you decided to keep the baby. Sorry it took me a while to reply, I never know when there are knew replies on this thread. If you ever need to, we could keep in touch through email if you wanted. Stay strong, and I'll try to keep track of the thread <3
I think good names for her are Grace, or Hope.
pick a name that means something to you. are you putting her up for adoption?
I vote Pheobe.
i think you should name it desire (pronounced dez-er-ay)...
Name her miracle or hope
omg :) i like miracle!
Miracle would be interesting. u should definently name her something that means something to u like sweetheart said.
I agree with Sweethearrt and Tomboy. Name her something meaningful especially for you. I do like the sound of Miracle :)
Oh my gosh, this is so amazing. You went from being a frightened teen girl with a huge secret you flt you couldn't tell your family to being supported my many people and falling love with your baby you haven't even met yet. I think it's your choice whether to keep her or not, and Miracle sounds perfect because she IS a miracle. What an amazing story you'll have to tell her when she's older! I'm your age and can't imagine being in your position but you've done amazing by the looks of things!
Sara.M.G.D, no offense but you should really read the entire thread first, even though it's long
hey everybody..life stinks again :( anyone feel like listening to a hormonal weepy 14 yr old whine bout heart burn??
i'm here if you'd like to spill
Yes, we sure do. Spill it all out... it always helps to tell people and so... tell us all about it
well it hurts rly bad...im in lots of pain. my stomach hurts and everything i eat just makes it worse. yet im still soo hungry all the time. i'm gaining weight like crazy and i feel like a cow. none of my clothes fit anymore and mom is being witchy whenever i tell her i need new clothes (she gives me that whole "you asked for it" face)
my feet and back hurt and im so weepy. i cry all the time over everything. plus i'm STILL getting sick alot. i share a room with my sis gabby and she hates me cause i keep her up half the night throwing up. ugh...its a pain.
and my mom is stil trying to convince me to go for adoption. she is using her parental power to say that she wont support me if i kp the baby. dad is being supportive and says he'll help lol, so im not THAT worried bout like being thrown out on the streets or something. its just...i rly need my mom ya kno?
Uggg... You're not a cow, first of all. It's normal to gain weight during a pregnac.y after all you have a kid growing inside you. It's also normal to feel hungry because you are feeding not just one, but TWO people. Maybe you could talk to either your dad or Joanna or someone who could take you shopping for maternit.y clothes. Is she still being supportive? Also maybe if your she or your dad could talk seperately with your mom they might be able to help. I think your mom is feeling bitter right now and isn't nessecarily thinking about what is best for you and the whole family. She seems to be taking her bitterness out on you, because she probably feels trapped by your situation, like it's partly her responsibility. I think she is foreseeing a future which may or may not happen if you keep the baby: that with you being only a young teenager and all, a lot of the responsibility would fall on her. Hang in there. She's only acting like that because she loves you. She'll come around sometime.
Ohh and also I forgot to ask.. sorry if this is a bit blunt but how many months along are you? Just wondering...
Sarah!i am here for you.whatever you need,dont hesitate to tell me or any of the rest of us.i read ur whole story.i am ur age,and i cannot imagine being in ur position.i realllllly think tht ur such a strong girl!i mean,how many of us on this websight can say tht weve been through pregnency at 13/14!?!?!????keep ur head up,sarah!were all here for u!if u need to complain to ANYONE, do not hesitate to dump complaints on me!!!stay strong girl!(i am sooo srry about the baby boy!i cannot imagine how hard tht was for u.i do think it was gods way of showing ur family how much u need them,and i do think ur right about keeping ur baby girl.i think id def do the same.ooh!and Miracle is a perfect name for ur baby girl)
I am sorry, I really am. KatiKat is right, your mom will come around, it must be hard but it will be worth it, i am sure, you will have a beautiful little girl. Hang in there Sara, and again I am sorry.