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Phoenix1253 replied...
Jun. 23, 2010 at 4:36 pm

Sarah I am Really Praying for you. Just pray to God and really think about what he is doing in your life that is positive. Dont focus on the negative. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here, and so is Jesus.

When ever you feel Satan is attacking you read phillipians. Its a really good book and I have found it helpful.

Your friend sydney

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 23, 2010 at 5:11 pm

no im ok...thanks for checking :) life is being that way...but im just kinda accepting that it's gona b that way for the next several months so...sigh... tomboy-yea he and my sis r rly close friends, so he's at my house alot. he acts like i don't exist. my dad said that when he came over later tonite we were all gona have a long talk :/

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 23, 2010 at 6:43 pm

Ah. That's nerve racking. 

It's good that your dad is talking to you, at least, and that everything is out in the open. That would suck if they just... let it go, you know?

Hopefully things can only go uphill from here. How is your sister acting? And school? 

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Tomboy replied...
Jun. 23, 2010 at 9:52 pm

man that guy is lucky i dont know him, thats bothering me that he's acting like you dont exist.  plz report after the talk im axicous

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Tomboy replied...
Jun. 24, 2010 at 12:51 am

im with you katikat! :)

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KatiKat replied...
Jun. 25, 2010 at 10:57 am

oh yeah umm I accidentally deleted it... well anyway what I said was that the dear daddy should be punched out. Or at least given a good punch in the guts or (even better) the nuts. (I could do that for you) Someone ought to give him what he deserves for being such a jerk.

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KatiKat replied...
Jun. 25, 2010 at 11:00 am

Also how did your sister react to finding out he was the dad? Does she know? You should tell her if she doesn't. If she does, I can't believe she isn't doing anything, like talking to him about it or anything. He's done that and she's still really close friends with him!?

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 26, 2010 at 9:11 pm

Hey Sarah, I just wanted to let you know that I'm away for three weeks... going to camp. Anyways, remember that you can do it and it'll get better. 

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avmbookworm replied...
Jun. 29, 2010 at 11:30 am

Hey Sarah, I figured that since AprilBlue is away for a while, I should step in to help.  I am home for the entire summer, so if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here :-)

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Vampyro replied...
Jun. 29, 2010 at 3:32 pm

Hey Sarah, I've read the whole thing and i just want to say if you need to talk or vent or whatever you need I'm here. Also if you want to txt me i wud b fine wih that. Stay strong

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 29, 2010 at 9:07 pm

bookworm thank u soooo much!!! i flipped when i read the post aprilblue was going away. wow...thank u so much for being here for me.

 

vampryo-thanks so much? is it possible to get ur # on here? i know they filter stuff alot

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Vampyro replied...
Jun. 30, 2010 at 8:44 am

I don't want to post it up here but I wud ema_il it to you, whats ur em_ail?

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KatiKat replied...
Jun. 30, 2010 at 8:11 pm

Keep us posted on what's happening, okay? We're all here for you and we'll listen.

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Vampyro replied...
Jul. 1, 2010 at 10:35 am

howr you doing? Is ur family treating you a little better?

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Sarah M. replied...
Jul. 3, 2010 at 3:18 pm

so sorry i havent been on here for awhile...sooo much has been happening.

 i spent my birthday in the hospital because i woke up like bleeding to death i thought. my whole family drove me to the hospital. we were all really scared and devestated when we realized that i had mis carried. we were crying and praying and it was awful, i was so sick and i was on a touch and go basis for awhile.

but get this...i was having twins! so im still expecting. omgsh my life never fails to amaze me...im pretty tore up about the baby...a little boy. we had a small ceremony at my church and most of the congregation showed up (yesterday) it hurts so bad, but i'm so grateful for the little baby i still have. it's a girl and i feel truly truly blessed. my family has totally stepped up after the mis carriage, and although i can see how hard it is for them, they r trying to be supportive. my oldest sister joanna is being rly gr8, and even tho things are strained with gabby, she isn't acting like i dont exist anymore.

the guy is actually moving to washington next week...his father got a new job offer. he wont b around, but my dad practically threatened his life ( not literally) and he has agreed to pay child support when the baby comes. if that will happen im not sure.

umm...did i cover everything? my due date is actually Christmas, and i'm taking suggestions for names. lol

im in much better spirits but i realize this is going to be so hard. ppl from church are being great and ive been set up with a babysitting job for several of the families. im saving every bit of money i have, bcz the truth is...i want to keep the baby. i was so close to losing her, i cant ever imagine giving her up. my father is supportive but my mom still wants me to consider adoption, i will for now, but i know deep down that i will never do that. i love this baby so much, and i'm still so afraid that i'm going to lose her. there's a much greater chance since i already lost her brother, but im praying that she stays safe.

basically everyone from school knows, word got out on that one in like a day. very few of my friends r supportive, but the ones that r r rly helping out alot.

did i miss any questions? its amzing wat can happen in a few days.

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Sweethearrt replied...
Jul. 3, 2010 at 4:13 pm

oh, wow. srry to join in so late, but i just wanted to let you know that i can b here for you to talk to :)

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KatiKat replied...
Jul. 3, 2010 at 4:16 pm

Oh my god that's such a relief! I'm so sorry about your little boy but hopefully his twin sister will make it through. It's good the father at least says he'll pay child support, that's a good step at least. Happy Birthday! :) So awesome your parents and sisters are being more supportive. I hope everything works out whether or not you keep the baby. I'm sure it will work out in the end, it already seems to be working out. Wishing you and your baby girl the very best possible!!!! :))) Good luck, keep us posted!

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Vampyro replied...
Jul. 3, 2010 at 9:48 pm

That's great! Talk about a good birthday week. I'm so glad that your family is with you on this and it's great that the father will pay child support. Best of luck, we r all here if u need us, and we aren't going anywhere soon. 

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krissy775 replied...
Jul. 3, 2010 at 10:43 pm

oh my god....poor thing! im 13 too....awh. if u dnt wanna tell ur mom/dad then tell a best friend, maybe a older friend. like 15-20 that u trust to help u?!?! ik i wouldnt wanna tell my parents. take a preggo test. omg. i hope everything is ok.. :(

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KatiKat replied...
Jul. 4, 2010 at 12:08 pm

Vampyro's right, we're not going anywhere and we're all wishing you the best :) Hoping the awesome things just keep on happening

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