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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 14, 2010 at 8:26 pm

yea ill probly be attending school. no not bad pain...morning sickness stinks, but it's more just a feeling like i'm shaking off the flu. family is still the same...i'm pretty lonely accept for the one friend from church i told you about. she kps checking up on me but...she isn't my mom or my sisters, or my father for that matter. all i rly want is my family

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 15, 2010 at 2:36 pm

Yeah. I know what you mean, 'bout the family thing. 

Is your school gonna be a b**** to you? I know that's not something easily accepted, which doesn't help AT ALL. Blah. 

Hope your family warms to you.

I'm sure they will. And the father... well, lets just say in no way does he deserve a girl as nice as you.

 

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 15, 2010 at 8:11 pm

yea...i'm expecting school 2 b pretty terrible. unfortunately, the christain title only goes as far as the sign on the door. :( how old r u anyways? ur very mature for being..12??

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 15, 2010 at 8:22 pm

Yeah. Thanks :)

Ugh. Blahness. School can be a serious butt, to be frank. 

almost thirteen, but I'm getting there. Any improvement what so ever? 

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 15, 2010 at 8:26 pm

umm...if u count my sister holding my hair 2day when i threw up?? not the one who is bff's with the dad...the one who is going to b a senior. physically no...throwing up WORSE THEN EVER!!

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 16, 2010 at 6:18 pm

I count that as an improvement, yes. Ugh. Are you throwing up often?  I think that maybe the sister who is bffs with the Dad might be bitter for a bit. Just because she doesn't believe that he could do something like that and vice versa. Does the dad even know?

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 16, 2010 at 8:17 pm

yeah i'm throwing up through out the entire day off and on. no the dad doesn't know...he is kinda a jerk and i have a feeling he'd deny it anyways..i'm wondering if i should even tell him??? wat do u think?

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 17, 2010 at 1:58 pm

Im not sure. Depends on the kinda guy he is. Like I'm going "Out" w/ one of my close guy friends and this little voice in the back of my head is telling me that's all he'll ever be, a friend, and I think it's right, so I'm going to tell him when school ends, because that's only fair; plus I'm going to camp w/o a phone for a good amount of time so that should do it... I know I have to tell him because it's going to happen. I know cuzza that gut feeling, you know? What I'm trying to get at is that only you could know. The only thing I would ask is does he go to your school? Because he might find out sooner or later. 

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 17, 2010 at 3:35 pm

yeah...he goes to my school. he is a good guy i guess. i kno he'd b supportive or help or watever. but i can't even stand to look at him. he took advantage of me...i didn't want to do it..and he said he had everything taken care of...and he didn't :'-(

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 17, 2010 at 5:14 pm

I guess we're both stuck undecided. Sometimes boys (NOT the ones on this sight) can be weird.  I know what I'm going to do, so I only say this. It's good you told your family. It took guts to do that. It's good you told your sisters - took more guts to do that. The last thing you have to overcome is this. If you tell him, can you tell him that it was stupid, what you did, and that you've got it taken care of? Maybe you should write him a letter. I was just reading a thread about that. 

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JubilexThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 17, 2010 at 9:13 pm

The guy does deserve to know. What he does afterwards is his choice, but I do think that you should at least find a way to tell him.

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 18, 2010 at 6:49 pm

so i txted him today and told him his reply: "oh rly..that sucks. w/ who?"

 

he says there's no way its his...

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avmbookworm replied...
Jun. 19, 2010 at 12:04 pm

Hey Sarah, if the guy is going to be like that, then just let him go. Everyone here reading your story can tell that you are an extremely strong girl. Things are going to be hard, but you can definitely get through them, and we'll all be here for you <3

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 19, 2010 at 12:17 pm

Yeah, I told my guy about the whole dating thing. He was okay with it... I'm not sure if we're friends anymore but it had to be done. 

Sorry if this sounds dumb, but I'm proud of you for telling him. He's the only one who could be the father? 

And he's being ridiculous. I know you said he is nice so I'm gonna refrain from cussing him out, but know that we ARE all gonna be here for you. 

I like how AVM put it. She nailed it. 

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 21, 2010 at 2:19 pm

Sarah? You around? Post when you get a chance. 

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Tomboy replied...
Jun. 21, 2010 at 3:13 pm

well this isn't something you can exactly keep secret, eventually someone is going to find out.  and itd be better if you told your family right away so they can help, but no matter what, it'll be ok, but like i said you need help

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Tomboy replied...
Jun. 21, 2010 at 3:28 pm

oh srry, i just read the whole story.  dang, a lot of drama.  definently keep posting, and srry but i agree that that guy used you if he thinks you're sleeping with more then one guy.  i feel awful that you feel so alone, hopefully ull find some more people like ur church friend

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Sarah M. replied...
Jun. 21, 2010 at 6:43 pm

hey aprilblue i'm on..wats up? sorry..i've been rly down and hanging low the last few days. havent been up to talking. 

 

and thanks for everything guys. and yea april, i'm sure he's the father.

 

tomboy-its ok. lol. and maybe i will...she's a hard friend to beat tho

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Tomboy replied...
Jun. 22, 2010 at 11:30 am

so have you seen the guy lately?  is he being supportive whatsoever?  i know youre giving it up for adoption but he still needs to be apart of it at least a little.  he caused it so he has to be there till the end

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AprilBlue replied...
Jun. 23, 2010 at 3:08 pm

SARAH! Thank God. I thought something bad happened. 

Aw. I'm sorry life is being a stuck up b*tch. (It's true, haha :P)

I hope you feel better... I'll be around to talk if ya need it. 

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